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love and in love....

I am a very avid facebook and myspace user. I'm not even sure why.. but i came across a question. Is there a difference between loving someone and being in love? My answer is yes absolutely. you can love anyone. Your family, your friends, your enemies.. but you can only be in love with someone who has stolen your heart. whether it be your significant other or God. Though with either instance you can fully love. For anyone who would use the line "i love you but im not in love with you" stop using it as a cop out. If you dont want to be with them then be honest. it hurts worse if you make excuses because you can always see past them sooner or later. . its just a crazy thing to think about.

Anyway today i went to see the movie "Drag Me to Hell".. it was just aweful. horrible story line, and the fact that they dont give an oppertunity to really be able to save your soul. and im not saying you can do it by yourself.. no one can save themselves. and some of the acting was a tad bit cheesy... long story short its not worth the almost $10 you have to pay to watch it. don't waste your time..

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